Love Coaching for Couples

What do couples need most?

Love, support, connection, communication. Why settle for a relationship that’s just going along when you could be in something that is what you’ve ever wanted?

Warm, loving, sexy, honest intimate relationships are the ones that last. Imagine being with someone you love and desire and feel connected to every single day or your life?

I get couples back on track. More than that, I get them back in to connection, – the type of connection and warmth, having fun, becoming the life partners they’ve always wanted and always wanted to be and the ones they never thought they could even dream of being.

This is a radical approach to couples counselling. It’s not about getting back to where we were (when we first met and fell in love for example). It’s about moving in to something completely connected, amazing, abundant – the type of relationship you never thought yourself and your partner could have.

How do I do this?

Through the 12-week couples love connection course we will look at ; goal setting, building trust and understanding, effective communication techniques, exploring emotional intimacy, maintaining healthy relationships and future planning.

With each 12 week course, every couple receives a COMPLEMENTARY copy of my book How to Have Extraordinary Relationships (‘this luminous book promises to be a game changer,” Katherine Woodward Thomas) plus an EXCLUSIVE 8 part video course designed to support couples through the love connection programme with each video deepening the work of the chapters of the book – new insights, exercises included.

Open, easy, actively-connected relationships are what I help support and promote and I will guide you and coach you in how to understand and accept the past – however painful – and move on in to the supportive and intimate relationship you have always wanted.

I am here to help couples explore areas that may be difficult

The work/life balance, self-esteem issues individually and within a couple relationship, family issues, sex, money, all the big stumbling blocks we face, all the other myriad areas than can trigger deep responses within ourselves that then come to the fore in our relationships.

I work in whatever way the couple finds more comfortable. I am led by the couple, not by an abiding overriding therapeutic model. I work within the remits and boundaries that the couple agree on so that everyone in the room feels safe and valid.

I not only help support couples in difficult times but also am happy to work with couples who want some help with how to maintain their relationship and nourish each other. As one client said to me, “we are surviving not flourishing.” He came to me with his wife because they were committed to finding more energy and warmth in their relationship – to flourish, in fact.

In my practice, I have helped support couples in many ways – some want to look at a particular issue, some want a space in which to look at problems in their relationship in a more general way. Some wish to look at specific areas of potential conflict and general misunderstandings between them and communication is always a key issue.

But what everyone wants is to have the warm, loving, honest, connected intimate relationship they have craved for so long. When I see couples reconnect it’s a magical thing. The person you need and want is the person you are with. We all just need to find this and move forwards in to a great relationship rather than just a good one. It’s not easy. It takes work but I am here to coach you and get you both to a full partnership in all senses.

The Couples Love Connection Course

I offer a 12-week course (structured weekly or in any way that works for you both) that covers;

  • Week One: introduction and goal setting
  • Week Two: building trust and understanding
  • Week Three: effective communication techniques
  • Week Four: conflict resolution strategies
  • Week Five: exploring emotional intimacy
  • Week Six: strengthening physical intimacy
  • Week Seven: managing stress and external pressures
  • Week Eight: rebuilding after betrayal
  • Week Nine: financial harmony
  • Week Ten: parenting and family dynamics
  • Week Eleven: maintaining healthy relationships
  • Week Twelve: review reinforcement and future planning

Contact me NOW and let’s get started!

C & G, married couple

Lucy taught us how to talk honesty and more importantly listen to each other. With her help we have saved our marriage of 30 years and understand that broken hearts in time can be mended. Lucy will never really know how much she has done for our family, and to anyone reading this feeling as desperate as we did marriages can be saved